Fancy a walk?

Sure.

Coat on. Keys. Wallet. Done.

Now? We can start getting ready at 9am for a trip to the garden centre and somehow still be pulling off the drive just before lunch.

It’s not that we’re particularly disorganised. It’s just that leaving the house with children is no longer a simple task. It’s an event. A carefully choreographed production where every family member has a starring role, whether they want one or not.

And no matter how many weekends you do it, it never seems to get any quicker.

It Always Starts So Innocently

The conversation is always the same.

“Shall we go out somewhere?”

“Yeah, sounds good.”

“We’ll leave in about twenty minutes.”

Twenty minutes.

It’s a lovely idea. Optimistic. Hopeful.

Completely detached from reality.

Someone Needs a Shower

Usually both adults do.

One disappears upstairs, leaving the other in charge downstairs.

Within seconds, one child wants a snack, the other needs help finding a toy they haven’t looked at for three weeks, and the dog has decided now is the perfect time to bark at absolutely nothing.

The person in the shower emerges feeling refreshed.

The person left downstairs looks like they’ve done a full shift.

Children Have Their Own Timetable

Adults understand the concept of getting ready.

Children… not so much.

The moment you say, “We’re going out,” they suddenly remember every single thing they’ve ever wanted to do.

Can we build some Lego first?

Can I finish this drawing?

Can you watch me do a handstand?

Can I just show you something?

Each request only takes a minute. Unfortunately, there are about thirty of them.

Everyone Is Suddenly Hungry

Nobody wanted food five minutes ago.

Breakfast was apparently more than enough.

Then somebody mentions putting shoes on, and suddenly it’s as if the family hasn’t eaten for days.

“I’m starving.”

“I need a snack.”

“Can I have a banana?”

You hand over the banana.

They take two bites.

The rest somehow ends up in the footwell of the car.

Where Have the Shoes Gone?

This is the stage that genuinely baffles me.

How can shoes disappear inside a house?

You don’t own that many rooms.

They were definitely by the front door yesterday.

Yet one trainer has vanished into another dimension.

The search begins.

Eventually they’re found under the sofa, in the toy box or, on one memorable occasion, in the bathroom.

Nobody knows why.

Just One More Toilet Trip

At this point, everyone is finally dressed.

Coats are on.

Bags are packed.

The front door is actually open.

Then somebody says the words every parent expects.

“I need a wee.”

Fine.

They disappear upstairs.

Their sibling suddenly decides they should probably go too.

Then one of the adults thinks, “Actually…”

Five more minutes disappear.

Packing for Every Possible Emergency

Leaving the house used to involve grabbing your keys.

Now it feels like preparing for an Arctic expedition.

Water bottles.

Snacks.

Wipes.

Spare clothes.

Sun cream.

Raincoats.

Favourite teddy.

That random toy dinosaur which apparently cannot be left at home under any circumstances.

The irony is you’ll probably only be gone for an hour.

One Parent Is Always Waiting

Every family seems to have one.

They’re standing by the front door with the keys, convinced everyone else is ready.

They’ve been waiting for fifteen minutes already.

The other parent is still checking nobody needs another drink, another snack or another emergency visit to the toilet.

Neither is wrong.

It’s just the natural order of family life.

Eventually, somehow, everyone makes it into the car.

Seatbelts are fastened.

Engine started.

You exchange a look that says, “We actually did it.”

Then, from the back seat, comes the inevitable voice.

“I forgot my water bottle.”

Or…

“I’ve left Teddy inside.”

Or my personal favourite…

“I need a poo.”

Somehow, It’s Worth It

The funny thing is, if you’d asked me ten years ago why parents always seemed late or why it took them so long to go anywhere, I’d probably have assumed they just weren’t very organised.

Now I know the truth.

It’s not one big delay.

It’s fifty tiny ones.

It’s answering questions, tying shoelaces, finding missing socks, cutting apples into exactly the right number of slices and making sure everyone’s actually happy to leave the house in the first place.

Individually, they barely register.

Together, they somehow turn twenty minutes into two hours.

And despite all that, once you’re finally out—whether it’s the park, the garden centre, the beach or just a trip to B&Q—you usually forget about the chaos that got you there.

Until Sunday morning, when someone cheerfully says, “Shall we pop out for a bit?”

“Yeah,” you reply.

“We’ll leave in twenty minutes.”

1. Choose the Right Glamping Site for Your Family

Glamping sites can be quite different, so compare your options carefully. Pods, safari tents, shepherd’s huts and cabins vary in sleeping arrangements, and what looks charming online may lack the basics you need. Check how many each unit really sleeps, whether there are private toilets and showers or shared facilities, and what cooking equipment is provided. Confirm exactly what the booking includes, from bedding to firewood, so there are no awkward surprises on arrival.

2. Plan Activities That Work for the Whole Family

Half the fun is what surrounds the site, so research family-friendly things to do nearby. Being outdoors is a big part of the appeal, and it clearly lands with children: more than nine in ten say being in nature makes them very happy, according to Natural England. Line up a mix of outdoor adventures alongside indoor backups like a museum or soft play. That balance matters here, as plans may shift with the weather.

3. Pack for Comfort, Not Just Adventure

Packing well is where comfort is won or lost. Bring layers for cool evenings and warm days, plus waterproofs and sturdy footwear for everyone. If bedding is not supplied, pack duvets, pillows and an extra blanket each. Add toiletries, a small first-aid kit, and any cooking essentials the site does not provide. For the children, a few familiar toys, books or games make downtime easier and bedtime calmer in an unfamiliar setting.

4. Make the Journey Part of Your Glamping Plan

The trip there sets the tone, so plan your route and allow plenty of time to arrive, unpack and settle everyone before the evening. Travelling in the motorhome you plan to stay in can stretch the holiday and turn the journey itself into part of the adventure. Just sort the practicalities first, from route planning and vehicle checks to taking out motorhome insurance before you set off.

5. Prepare for Whatever the British Weather Brings

Finally, plan around the forecast instead of hoping for the best. Check the outlook and any weather warnings shortly before you leave, then pack accordingly, whether that means extra waterproofs or sun cream and hats. Keep a wet-weather backup plan ready so a rainy morning becomes an adventure indoors rather than a washout. That flexibility keeps everyone happy, whatever the skies do.

Glamping rewards families who plan ahead. Sort the site, the activities, the packing, the journey and the weather, and you are free to focus on the bit that matters: enjoying it together.

If you are naturally quiet, shy or socially awkward, that part of school life can be uncomfortable. Then comes the more troubling thought: is your child missing out because you find it difficult to talk to the other parents?

The reassuring answer is that having a socially awkward dad does not condemn a child to a lonely childhood. Children form their own connections at school, through clubs and anywhere else they regularly meet people. However, there is an honest complication. Younger children cannot exchange phone numbers, arrange lifts or organise Saturday-afternoon playdates. Parents often control those opportunities, whether they intend to or not.

You therefore do not need to transform yourself into the most popular dad at the school gates. You may simply need to make a few deliberate moves that stop your discomfort becoming a practical barrier for your child.

Are You Really Holding Your Child Back?

It is easy to assume that the sociable parents have sociable children because they are constantly arranging things together. Sometimes that probably is how a friendship begins. Two parents get along, their children spend more time together and the convenience gradually becomes a genuine friendship.

Parents are certainly involved in creating opportunities. A 2024 C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital poll found that 45% of parents of younger children had arranged playdates to help their child make friends, while 30% had tried to befriend other parents. That does not mean you need your own friendship group before your child can have one. It means that somebody occasionally has to send the first message.

Before worrying that you are holding your child back, look at what is actually happening. Do they mention children they play with? Are they happy to go to school? Do they talk about games, conversations and shared jokes? Some children are perfectly content with one or two good friends and have no interest in belonging to a large group.

If you are unsure, ask their teacher how they mix with other children. The answer may reassure you that your child has a busy social life for six hours a day, even if none of it has yet made its way into your family calendar.

Creating Opportunities Without Working the Room

Your aim is not to charm every parent in the playground. It is to make contact with one parent whose child already gets along with yours.

Ask your child whom they enjoy spending time with, rather than selecting someone based on which parent appears easiest to approach. Then keep the invitation simple and specific. Something like, “Sam talks about Oliver all the time. Would he like to meet us at the park after school on Thursday?” is enough. You are arranging an hour at the park, not applying to join somebody’s inner circle.

Neutral locations are particularly useful if the thought of hosting makes you uncomfortable. A park, soft-play centre or café with a play area gives the children something to do and removes the pressure to entertain another parent in your home. It can also make the invitation feel more casual.

If your school has a class WhatsApp group, use it for practical contact. You do not have to contribute to every discussion or produce the perfect witty reply. If you do not have the other parent’s details, you could ask the teacher whether they would be willing to pass your number on. They should not give you somebody else’s personal details, but they may be able to forward yours.

It also helps to accept invitations when you reasonably can. Other parents may interpret silence or repeated refusals as a lack of interest, even when the real reason is nerves. You do not need to become great friends with them. Being friendly, reliable and willing to make arrangements is often enough.

Open the Door, Then Let Your Child Lead

There is a danger of overcorrecting once you start worrying about your child’s social life. You might arrange endless activities, push them towards particular children or treat every quiet weekend as evidence that something is wrong.

Your child still needs to choose their own friends. Ask open questions such as “Who made you laugh today?” or “Who did you play with at lunchtime?” These usually reveal more than asking whether they have a best friend. Once they mention the same name regularly, you have a natural starting point for an invitation.

How much help they need will also change with age. Parents have considerable control over the social lives of younger children because they provide the communication, supervision and transport. Older children gradually arrange more for themselves, although they may still need a lift, somewhere to meet or permission to invite somebody over.

Pay attention if your child repeatedly says they are lonely, feels excluded, becomes distressed about breaktimes or actively asks for help making friends. That is the point to speak to the school and find out what they have noticed. But do not mistake your own discomfort at the school gates for evidence that your child is struggling.

A socially awkward dad can still model kindness, loyalty, good listening and the courage to do something uncomfortable for someone else. Your child does not need you to be popular. They just need you to open the occasional door—and let them decide who walks through it.

One thing they have in common, is that they both offer a Free Child Places deal. However, the holidays available through each brand and the way they are packaged are not necessarily identical, so it is still worth checking both websites.

The bones of the deal are the same though – one of your kids can get a free holiday provided certain conditions are met, and cash strapped parents desperate for a holiday will be very glad of that!

Here’s everything you need to know about First Choice’s free kids places offer.

Terms and Conditions

First Choice are a more budget conscious brand, and the way they work is by letting people pay only for exactly what they need. For example, they can leave out transfers from the airport, or only travel with hand luggage, or book the flights on a cheaper airline. They offer packages as well, but customers can adapt them to fit their specific needs or to bring the cost down.

However, where the Free Child Places offer is built in, changing anything else about that package could invalidate the deal. This is something you must be aware of when booking with First Choice. The flight times, airport, hotel, baggage, everything has been selected specifically to enable them to offer the free child place, so if you tinker with it, the deal might no longer apply.

There are still loads of options, so you shouldn’t struggle to find something that works, but it’s a bit different to other companies offering similar free child place deals, so don’t get caught out.

Other than that, the offer is fairly standard: 2 adults paying full price can take a child with them for no extra cost. That means four adults could get two free child places in the right circumstances, and there are even a small number of hotels that extend the offer to multiple children. These are rare but they do exist, so check the specific terms. A ‘child’ usually means someone under 12, but some hotels accept kids up to 15 for free.

Be aware too that this is a seasonal offer, and that places can run out, especially at busy times like school holidays, so book early if you can. You can sign up for alerts if you have somewhere specific in mind.

What’s Included?

This deal includes everything the full paying adults are getting, even down to the type of board that has been paid for. In other words, if you adults are getting all inclusive, so will the free child, but if they are going self catering, food and drink for the child will also have to be paid for separately.

At a glance, you get:

• Free flights
• Free accommodation
• The same standard board basis as the adults
• Free transfers where transfers are included in the package
• The hotel facilities, activities and entertainment included in the adults’ package

The free child will have to stay in the same room/apartment as the parents of course. They are allowed to stay for free, but they won’t get a room to themselves.

It’s also worth mentioning that infants under two years old are usually free too. There might be a nominal charge from the airline to cover taxes, but provided they sit on your lap, you won’t usually need to buy an extra seat for them.

Where Can You Go?

First Choice have a great range of destinations from European favourites to long-haul hot spots

Some of the destinations included with the free child place offer have included:

• Bulgaria
• Croatia
• Cyprus
• Greece
• India
• Jamaica
• Maldives
• Mexico
• Portugal
• Spain
• Thailand
• USA (Florida)

So it’s a real mix as you can see.

Why Book With First Choice?

All the big companies offer free child places, so why would you choose First Choice?

Well, First Choice is aimed at more budget conscious travellers, so even with a free child place included, their packages are often very good value. There is also more variation, because First Choice build their packages using flights from several airlines, meaning lots of choice when it comes to departure airports and timings.

You can even find some of the same hotels as those being offered with TUI, just with a different airline, for example, or with less baggage allowance. Both could come with a free child’s place, but First Choice could be cheaper.

I would also say that First Choice have moved on from their reputation as providing only all inclusive resorts. They now have a full range of holidays including self-catering apartments and five star resorts too – and they could still qualify for the free child place deal.

So if you are on a budget and prepared to be flexible, you could do very well with First Choice.

easyJet’s Free Child Places deal is one such offer, and apart from being a great deal for families looking to save money on their holidays, it has a few interesting quirks to be aware of before you book.

The free places are available on thousands of holidays with easyJet, and they are all ATOL protected, but this is not unique among holiday providers.

What makes easyJet interesting, aside from a huge range of package holidays available with free child places, is their flexibility. They also have a few terms you should know about before you pack your suitcase.

How It Works

It’s a simple enough offer: with selected hotels and destinations, you can get one free child’s place for every two paying adults.

That means a free flight, free accommodation (so long as the child is sharing a room with the parents), free transfers, free 23kg luggage allowance, and even free food and drink if the booked holiday is all inclusive (hotel dependent). Nice, right?

Wherever you see the Free Child Place label on one of their holidays, the offer applies:

The even better news is that this offer applies even if you are also travelling with an infant. Infants (under 2 years old) travel for a nominal £25 fee with easyJet provided they sit on an adult’s lap, and the hotels don’t charge extra for them either. You can even put two items like a pushchair and a travel cot in the hold for free.

The holidays you can choose from are wide ranging too. Just some of the destinations include:

• Spain
• Portugal
• Cyprus
• The Greek Islands
• Turkey
• Egypt
• Malta
• Italy

…and more besides. So whether you go somewhere near or somewhere far, for a few days or up to two weeks, the Free Child Places deal is a possibility.

This isn’t available to single parents, but a single adult travelling with a child can claim up to a £100 discount offer.

Great For Short Family Breaks

In order to qualify for the Free Child Places offer, your holiday only needs to be 3 or more nights long. This means you can get away for a long weekend running into a bank holiday, for example, and still take advantage of the deal.

It works just as well for longer holidays too of course, but this sort of flexibility is really useful, especially for families juggling tight budgets with work commitments and school term times.

For young families it is even better, because thanks to the way easyJet treat infants, two adults could travel with two children (one under 2 and one under 15) without paying more than £25 for either of them.

The filtering options on the site even let you search for holidays based on flight duration, so you can choose a holiday that gives you more time relaxing or having fun and less time in the air – which means less chance of your kids going mad and screaming on the plane!

Flexibility

easyJet are keen to point out how flexible their holiday packages are, including those that qualify for the free children’s places.

For a start, so long as the balance is settled 28 days before the holiday, you can spread payments out in a way that suits you. A £60 deposit per person is all it takes to secure your booking, and after that, you can pay in instalments to a timeframe that works for you.

You can even change the details of your holiday – or the entire thing – up to 28 days before departure. Sometimes there is not even a fee for this, and where there is a fee, it is often as low as £25.

If the worst happened and you had to cancel the whole thing, they have a Refund Guarantee. If you cancel up to 60 days beforehand your deposit will be refunded as credit, but any instalments you have paid will be refunded in full. Cancellation up to 28 days before will see you lose the deposit, but you still get the rest back.

Plus, they promise to match the price if you find the same holiday cheaper elsewhere, too. It’s called their Best Price Guarantee.

easyJet have won a lot of awards for this sort of thing, and the Gods of parenting do enjoy throwing a spanner in the works don’t they? So this sort of flexibility is very useful indeed!

Things to Look Out For

The easyJet Free Child Places offer is created in conjunction with the hotels themselves. So easyJet is giving away the free travel, and the hotel is giving away the free accommodation. This means that each hotel has a say in the specific rules.

One of these is the upper age limit that your free child can be. This is something you need to check, because while the maximum upper age limit is 15, some have lower age limits.

easyJet themselves treat anyone 16+ as an adult.

Connected to this, children must still be under any applicable age limit on the return flight of the journey. So trying to sneak a 15 year old through if they turn 16 while you are away will not work. This also applies to infants: if your toddler turns 2 while you are away they are not classed as an infant.

You should also be aware that availability is limited. The free child places can run out, and may only be available for specific rooms in some hotels, or on certain dates. It depends on the hotel you are looking at, so check everything carefully.

The last thing to look out for is any extras. A lot is included for free, but optional extras such as picking specific seats on the plane (this is easyJet after all), upgrades, and sometimes entry to certain onsite attractions may cost extra.

If you and your other half wanted to get away for a week or two, it was as simple as picking a destination, finding the cheapest time to go, booking time off work, and packing your suitcase.

But with kids?

You need to navigate term time vs non-term time. School fines for unauthorised absences. All the extra luggage you need to pack, carry, and pay extra for. Not to mention extras like pushchairs for smaller children. That’s before we have considered the extra cost of a place on the plane for your little ones and potentially the extra charge to have them at the hotel.

Well, Jet2holidays make all of this a little bit easier with their Free Child Places offer – and it’s a good ‘un.

This deal is aimed squarely at families, and can bring the cost of a holiday down by 25% or even more if things fall in your favour. It essentially brings down the cost to pre-kids levels.

Here is how it works.

Millions of Free Places Available

Although the Free Child Places deal operates on a first come first served basis – so when they are gone they are gone – there are millions of free places available every year.

So while they don’t all disappear in the first few weeks, you might find availability is better at some times, and to some destinations, than others.

To book a holiday with a free kids place, you simply search the holidays as normal and the site will add the free places based on the ages you input of the people travelling.

For example, here, I searched holidays for 2 Adults and 2 Children, giving the children’s ages as 6 and under 2:

The site is now showing me the cost with the free places offer included, as you can see from the image. You can narrow down your search by using the filtering options if you only want to see places with a children’s club, or a splash park, or a gym, etc.

So it’s incredibly easy to find a holiday and see what it is going to cost upfront. No adding discount codes later on or messing about with extras that haven’t been included yet.

Speaking of what’s included, the free kids places are made up of the following:

• Free seat on the plane
• Free accommodation
• Free transfers
• Free piece of checked baggage
• Free food and drink if you have booked all inclusive
• Free kids clubs at the hotel (where included)

It goes without saying that all these holidays are also ATOL protected.

It’s also worth knowing that you can get one free child for every two full price paying adults. So four adults travelling with two children could potentially get both kids holidaying for free. For groups such as parents, kids and grandparents, or parents, kids, plus auntie and uncle, this is an epic saving.

I say ‘potentially’ because only one free child is allowed per room. So it would depend on the specifics of your booking.

A final note on age limits. The free places are age restricted but it is the hotel, not Jet2holidays, that set the upper age limit. It’s between 11 and 17 in most places, but do check. Importantly, your child must be within the age limit on the date of the return flight to qualify.

Available Year Round

This isn’t a seasonal offer either. Jet2 aren’t just trying to fill space during their quieter periods. Their free child places are available all year round.

Any season. Any month. And even at any destination. Subject to availability of course. Remember, places are limited.

That means you’re not picking from a pre-selected range of package holidays chosen by Jet2, you can use the free child places deal with every single holiday they offer on their website.

It even includes getaways during the school holidays when prices are usually higher.

In other words, if Jet2 fly there, you can get at least one of your children there for free.

What About Single Parent Families?

Holidays are much harder for single parent families. No one would debate that. But sadly, the cost of a holiday is expensive and there is only so much help companies like Jet2 can give.

They can afford to give free child places to two full paying adults, but not to one. Of course, if you have two children then you can still claim the Free Child Place deal on one of those children, because you are paying full price for the other. So it depends on how many kids you have and how old they are.

However, this comes with a caveat, because while Jet2 have to draw the line at totally free child places for single parent families made up of one adult and one child, they do have a few other deals that could help.

First, infants go free with Jet2 on all package deals. That means if your child is under 2 years old, they will go free – even if you are claiming a Free Child Place deal for an older child. Not only that, but there are some additional benefits to the free infant deal which make the trip even easier:

• An extra 10kg of luggage for free.
• Two pieces of equipment like a car seat, travel cot, or pushchair, free.
• Creches and kids clubs at the hotel (where these are included).

This is in addition to flights, accommodation and transfers.

Now, I don’t know about you, but I think that’s pretty generous.

Plus, if you have an older child, they also offer a £60 discount for single parents. This isn’t going to suddenly make the unaffordable affordable, but it’s a gesture, and every little helps!

I did. My grandparents took me and my sister every year. We would turn up at the theatre in Christmas jumpers, Grandad would buy us each a box of sweets and a drink, and we would scream our little hearts out when the actors did their routines. Pure magic.

I think the annual Panto would be the extent of most kids’ theatre experience, but the performing arts industry is on a mission to change that with Kids Theatre Week.

There is loads of brilliant kids theatre out there, especially in London which is the theatre capital of the world, with shows designed for toddlers right up to teenagers approaching adulthood. The trouble is that tickets are often eye-wateringly expensive, but thanks to Kids Theatre Week, they just got an awful lot cheaper.

You can now get free theatre tickets in the West End for your children.

This initiative has actually been running since 1998. It is essentially a buy one get one free deal for parents and kids over Summer, yet despite it’s longevity, a surprisingly large number of parents still don’t know about it. So I’m trying to spread the word because it’s a fantastic idea that ticks every box for Mums and Dads desperately trying to survive the school holidays: it’s cheap, it’s fun, and it’s culturally enriching.

All parents need affordable activities to fill the summer holidays with, so why not add a bit of culture into the mix?

What Is It (And When Is It)?

Rather confusingly, Kids Week is a scheme run over the whole of the Summer Holidays (so not just for a week). It was originally just for a week but it proved so popular that they extended it. This year it will run from Monday 20th July to Monday 31st August 2026, but ‘Kids 7 Weeks of Theatre’ doesn’t have quite the same ring to it, so they stuck with the original name.

During this time, any adult who buys a full price ticket to a participating show can take a child aged 17 or under with them for free. So two adults can take two kids for free. What’s more, two additional children’s tickets can be purchased per adult for half price. When you work it out, you can get 1 adult and 3 kids tickets for the price of 1 adult and 1 kids ticket – and no booking fees either. It’s a bargain!

The scheme is run by Society of London Theatre (SOLT), so sadly it is only available in the capital, but for anyone visiting or living in the surrounding area it’s fantastic.

Some shows even come with special additional activities as part of the scheme, such as post show Q and As or musical theatre workshops the kids can join in with.

There are 190,000 tickets available across all participating productions, but while that might sound like a lot they sell out fast – so don’t dawdle if you want to take advantage.

What Shows Can You Watch?

This will change from year to year, but lots of productions enrol in the scheme so there will always be a good mixture of plays, musicals, comedies, and children’s shows.

There are around 50 shows on the list for 2026, including:

• Alice in Wonderland
• Arcadia
• Arthur
• Be Like Blippi
• Beetlejuice the Musical
• Bluey’s Big Play
• Braniac Live
• Cabaret
• Matthew Bourne’s The Car Man
• The Cat In The Hat
• Come Alive!
• The Comedy About Spies
• Cyrano De Bergerac
• Dark of the Moon
• Death Note: The Musical
• The Devil Wears Prada
• Dinosaur World Live
• Disney’s Hercules
• Dog Man: The Musical
• The Enormous Crocodile The Musical
• The Gruffalo Live On Stage
• Heathers The Musical
• Horrible Histories: Barmy Britain – The Best Bits
• Hot Mess
• The Hunger Games: On Stage
• I’m Every Woman – The Chaka Khan Musical
• The Lion Inside
• The Little Mermaid: Song Of The Sea
• Mamma Mia!
• Matilda The Musical
• Ministry Of Science Live! Science Saved The World
• Monopoly Lifesized
• The Mousetrap
• RSC’s My Neighbour Totoro
• Now You See Me Live
• The Paddington Bear Experience
• The Play That Goes Wrong
• The Producers
• Sinatra The Musical
• Stranger Things: The First Shadow
• Tao Of Glass
• The Tiger Who Came To Tea
• To Kill A Mockingbird
• Wicked
• A World Elsewhere
• Zog

You can see from that small list of examples that there are a huge variety of shows taking part, so there will definitely be something that appeals to you and your children, however old they are and whatever they enjoy.

Booking

This bit is important.

You can only book these special tickets via the OfficialLondonTheatre.com website. This a ticketing website run by SOLT. It’s quite good for theatre fans in general actually, it’s full of news and announcements, and it also has its own booking platform.

While tickets are available across a large number of shows the exact dates and times they will be offered varies, so you might not be able to go on a specific day. That means there may be some flexibility required when booking.

Hopefully, since it’s during the Summer holidays that won’t be an issue, but it’s something to bear in mind.

Ticket prices will depend on the show you want to see, but the deal is the same wherever you go, and if you have theatre tokens they can be used in conjunction with this initiative too.

There is a maximum of 10 tickets per booking, so if you are thinking of arranging an outing for a very large group you’re best bet is to get in touch with the site directly.

Tickets will be on sale from 11th June 2024 – stick it in your diary.

Going on holiday is expensive too, especially with said kids, but thanks to TUI they are a little bit cheaper than they used to be. At least, they are if you pick one of their pre-selected locations and hotels.

That’s because the well known travel agent has a Free Kids Places promotion running: two adults can add a child to their booking without any additional payment, which means sun-seeking families are quids in.

This deal sounds too good to be true but I’ve looked into it and it’s genuine.

I’m surprised I haven’t heard about it before as they have been running the scheme for a few years now, but as far as I’m aware it hasn’t captured the sort of attention it should have done.

Or maybe that just shows how long it has been since my family have been away?

Whatever the reason, I know about it now, and I wanted to share the news with you lot because who couldn’t use a holiday with all the doom and gloom in the news? But who can afford it with the state of the economy?

Well, with TUI’s free kids places deal it just got a little bit more affordable.

It’s Not Really Free Is It?

Yes. Honestly, one kid goes free, for real.

This is a genuinely fantastic deal for families, especially if you only have one child.

You might think it’s just a free flight, or just a free hotel stay for them, but it’s everything:

• Free flight
• Free accommodation
• Free standard board food and drink
• Free transfers to and from the airport

You get one free child place for every two adults paying full price, which is why I say it’s an especially good deal for single child families. You’ll be going away for the same price you used to before you became parents, but with all the benefits of your son or daughter having tantrums in the heat, refusing to get out of the pool, and stopping you going out to get drunk in the evenings.

I’m kidding, they’re a joy and your holiday will be magic.

A family of four would still have to pay for one of their kids, but if Nana and Grandad were coming too you could maybe get another free child spot that way. I say ‘could’ because the offer is restricted to one free child’s place per hotel room, apartment or villa. If two sets of adults book for the same holiday and hotel, then you can get 2 free kids places, but if you book a villa you won’t be able to.

Anyway, stop being greedy.

All holidays come with ABTA and ATOL protection too.

I Need This In My Life – How Do I Book?

Sounds good, right?

The even better news is that there are loads of choices on their website, and finding them is really easy because they have built a user friendly interface to search for options.

If you head to the free child places page on their website you can enter a few details then browse all of the available hotels and locations they have included in the offer.

Once you have done this TUI will show you a list of options, with their own recommendations showing first.

However, there are a lot of filtering options to use now, such as destination, price, duration, UK airport, etc. You can use these to narrow down your search, and you will need to, because I searched for holidays a year in advance and there were 351 places to choose from.

You can see the free child place included in the price, and you can also create shortlists to help you narrow down where you want to go.

Once you’ve decided on your holiday, you’ll be able to customise the booking in terms of baggage, upgrading your board or adding additional insurance etc. There may be different options available depending on where you are trying to book.

It’s a painless experience whatever choice you make, and it could be quite fun browsing all the options with the whole family gathered around the laptop.

Where Can You Go and What Does it Cost?

TUI release the destinations and hotels that are included in the promotion well in advance, usually around 18 months ahead of time, so it’s not a last minute thing. Although it can be if there are places left.

If you want to go somewhere next month and it is available you can book it, but free kids places are limited, so expect fewer available options the longer you leave it.

There will be different locations available depending on the time you try and book, but after having a good look through here is a short selection of some destinations I saw:

• Bulgaria
• Tunisia
• Egypt
• Morocco
• Turkey

Before looking into it I assumed it would just be a bunch of all inclusives in Spain and maybe a few other nearby European countries like Italy, Greece and Portugal. Don’t get me wrong, there are more holidays included in Spain than anywhere else (it is the UK’s most popular holiday destination after all) but there are some farther flung locations in there as well.

They have even included holidays to Universal Studios in Florida in the past, so you never know what will come up.

Cost can obviously vary massively, from about £550 per person to well over £2,000 per person. That’s based on a week away, with factors like how far away your destination is, the quality of your hotel or resort, and whether you want self catering, half board or all inclusive explaining the huge contrast in price points.

At the cheaper end you’re looking at about the same price per person as the entire cost of a camping trip somewhere in the UK, and for the difference in quality of experience I would say this is well worth it.

TUI is a massive business too, so exploring the options available in the free kids places deal is akin to exploring all the destinations available at a smaller travel agent.

You might struggle to choose between all the options available but you certainly won’t struggle to find one.

Don’t get me wrong, while the idea of adding another member of the family fills your heart with joy, the reality of caring for two little ones simultaneously can cause sleepless nights.

And considering that sleepless nights are about to become a feature in your life again this is the last thing you need!

As a seasoned parent, you may feel more equipped to handle the practical aspects, but the emotional and logistical challenges can still catch you off guard.

I’ve been there, so let me talk you through the truth of going from a one child family to a two child family.

Managing Divided Attention

One of the most significant challenges in transitioning from one child to two is the inevitable division of your attention.

Your firstborn, who has been the sole recipient of your focus, may initially struggle with sharing the spotlight. Be proactive in addressing this and mitigating any feelings of jealousy or resentment.

Carve out dedicated one-on-one time with each child, even if it’s just 15 minutes a day. During this time, engage in activities that cater to their individual interests and needs, reassuring them that they are still very much loved.

Additionally, involve your firstborn in the preparations for the new baby’s arrival, such as decorating the nursery or picking out special gifts, to cultivate a sense of responsibility and excitement.

Unique Personalities

While your firstborn may have set certain expectations for you as a parent, approach your second child with an open mind and embrace their individuality.

Every child is unique, with their own personality, interests, and developmental timeline. What worked for your firstborn may not necessarily resonate with your second, and that’s perfectly normal.

Resist the urge to compare your children’s milestones or achievements, as each child will progress at their own pace. Instead, celebrate their differences and tailor your parenting approach to their specific needs and strengths.

For football fans, this is basically just man management. Be like Fergie.

This flexibility and acceptance will encourage a healthy sibling dynamic and nurture a deeper understanding and appreciation for the beauty of diversity within your family.

Sibling Rivalry

Sibling rivalry is an inevitable part of the process when kid number 2 comes along, and it can start immediately.

Your firstborn, who has been the centre of attention, may exhibit behaviours ranging from mild jealousy to outright defiance or regression. It’s essential to approach these situations with patience, empathy, and a proactive mindset.

Validate your firstborn’s feelings and reassure them that your love for them remains unwavering. Encourage them to talk about their feelings, allowing them to express their emotions freely without judgement.

Sibling Bonds

While sibling rivalry is a natural part of the journey, witnessing your children bond can be profoundly rewarding.

As your children grow and develop their relationship, you’ll have the privilege of observing their shared laughter, playful banter, and unwavering loyalty unfold before your eyes.

Encourage positive interactions by facilitating joint activities, such as reading together, engaging in imaginative play, or exploring the great outdoors. Let your older child teach their little brother or sister things. Celebrate their milestones and achievements as a family, and you will notice real unity.

The bond between siblings is a lifelong connection. By nurturing their relationship from an early age, you’re laying the foundation for a lasting friendship and a support system that will carry them through life’s ups and downs.

It also makes your life a heck of a lot easier if they get on!

Logistical Preparations: Streamline the Daily Routine

While the emotional aspects of the transition are paramount, practical considerations are probably the trickiest aspect.

With two children in tow, your daily routine will inevitably become more complex, and efficient time management will be key to maintaining a sense of balance and sanity.

Establish a well-structured schedule that accommodates both children’s needs, such as feeding times, nap schedules, and playtime. Enlist the support of your partner, family members, or trusted friends to assist with tasks like grocery shopping, meal preparation, or running errands, allowing you to focus on quality time with your little ones.

Additionally, consider investing in organisational tools or apps that can streamline your daily routine, such as meal planners, shared calendars, or task management systems.

By minimising the mental load and maximising efficiency, you can create more space to enjoy the precious moments with your growing family.

Financial Considerations

Expanding your family inevitably brings additional financial responsibilities. From diapers and formula to educational expenses and extracurricular activities, it’s crucial to assess your financial situation and make necessary adjustments to accommodate the added costs.

Evaluate your budget, prioritise essential expenses, and explore cost-saving strategies, such as hand-me-downs, consignment shops, or bulk purchasing. Additionally, research government assistance programs, tax credits, or employer benefits that may be available to support growing families.

Although your costs will go up in some areas, you can also save money via:

• Additional child benefit

• Re-use old clothes and baby equipment

• Sharing toys

By proactively addressing financial considerations, you can alleviate potential stress and ensure that your family’s needs are met without compromising your long-term financial stability.

Self Care and Building a Support Network

Amidst the chaos of caring for two children, it’s easy to neglect your own needs. However, prioritising self-care is essential for maintaining your physical, emotional, and mental well-being, enabling you to be the best parent you can be.

Taking care of yourself is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. By nurturing your own well-being, you’ll have the energy, patience, and resilience to navigate the challenges of parenting two children with grace and joy.

You don’t have to do it alone either.

The adage “it takes a village to raise a child” rings especially true when transitioning from one child to two. Building a strong support network can alleviate the burden and provide invaluable guidance and emotional support.

Reach out to fellow parents who have navigated the transition successfully, seeking their advice and learning from their experiences. Join local parenting groups or online communities where you can connect with others facing similar challenges.

Additionally, don’t hesitate to enlist the help of trusted family members, friends, or professional childcare services when needed. Whether it’s arranging for occasional babysitting, seeking counselling, or simply having someone to lend an ear, a supportive network can be a lifeline during the most challenging moments.

Embrace the Chaos

As you navigate the transition from one child to two, don’t aim for perfection. Embrace the chaos.

Things are going to be a bit wild for a few years, there’s no getting around it. Perfection is an unrealistic and unattainable goal. There will be moments of chaos, overwhelm, and exhaustion, but it’s often within these moments that the true beauty of parenthood is most evident.

Celebrate the small victories, whether it’s successfully getting both children dressed and out the door or enjoying a peaceful meal together without any mashed potato landing on the wall. Laugh at the mishap, they will be some of your funniest memories later on in life.

Most importantly, remember to enjoy the present moment. I guarantee you will look back fondly on the baggy eyed years of not enough sleep and too much coffee. Your kids won’t be tiny terrors for long, so enjoy them before they grow up and become as boring as the rest of us!

The good news? With strategic modifications, we can maintain—and even improve—our fitness levels well into our 50s, 60s, and beyond. I’ve learned that adapting doesn’t mean slowing down; it means training smarter to support longevity and continued enjoyment of physical activities.

In this article, I’ll share practical insights about why our bodies change after 40 and how we can adjust our fitness routines accordingly. Whether you’re looking to maintain functional mobility, continue participating in sports, or simply feel your best, these evidence-based strategies will help you navigate this new phase of life.

Physiological Changes After 40

I initially blamed my decreased recovery time on being “too busy” or “not sleeping enough.” While those factors certainly play a role, I’ve since learned about the natural physiological changes that occur as we enter our fifth decade.

Beginning in our 30s, we typically lose between 3-8% of muscle mass per decade, with this rate accelerating after 60. This phenomenon, called sarcopenia, affects not just our appearance but our metabolism and functional strength. Simultaneously, bone mineral density starts to decline, increasing fracture risk and potentially leading to osteoporosis.

Perhaps most noticeable for many active blokes is the decline in cardiorespiratory fitness—our body’s ability to transport and utilise oxygen during extended physical activity. This explains why that five-a-side football match that once felt manageable now leaves you gasping for breath by halftime.

Hormonal changes also impact our fitness. Testosterone levels gradually decrease, affecting muscle maintenance, fat distribution, and energy levels. Meanwhile, recovery capacity diminishes, meaning those DOMS (Delayed Onset Muscle Soreness) that once disappeared after a day now might linger for several.

Understanding these changes isn’t cause for discouragement but rather a call to adapt. By acknowledging these shifts, we can implement targeted strategies to counteract them.

Assessing Your Current Fitness Levels

Before overhauling your exercise regime, it’s best to establish a clear picture of your current fitness status. Don’t operate on assumptions about your capabilities rather than objective measurements.

A comprehensive fitness assessment should evaluate four key components: strength, stability, mobility, and cardiorespiratory fitness. These elements typically decline with age but respond well to targeted training. Consider consulting an exercise physiologist, physical therapist, or certified personal trainer for a professional evaluation, which can identify specific areas needing attention before they become problematic.

If professional assessment isn’t feasible, several self-tests can provide valuable insights:

• Strength: Test how many push-ups you can perform with proper form, or time how long you can hold a plank position
• Stability: Try standing on one leg for 30 seconds with eyes closed
• Mobility: Assess how close you can come to touching your toes from a standing position
• Cardiorespiratory fitness: Time yourself walking or jogging a mile at a consistent pace

I discovered my stability needed significant improvement—I couldn’t balance on one leg for more than a few seconds with my eyes closed. This revelation prompted me to incorporate specific balance exercises into my routine.

Recording these baseline measurements provides concrete data to track progress and identify areas requiring focused attention. Remember, this assessment isn’t about comparing yourself to others or to your younger self—it’s about understanding your current capabilities to create an appropriate, progressive training plan going forward.

Prioritising Strength Training

If there’s one fitness component I’ve learned deserves top billing after 40, it’s strength training. While younger me focused primarily on cardio and aesthetics, I now understand that preserving muscle mass through resistance training is non-negotiable for healthy ageing.

Strength training after 40 should shift focus from isolated “show muscles” to compound movements that engage multiple muscle groups simultaneously. These functional exercises—squats, deadlifts, rows, and presses—mirror everyday movements and provide more comprehensive benefits than bicep curls alone.

I’ve restructured my weekly routine to include at least two dedicated strength sessions, focusing on:

1. Compound movements: Exercises like squats, deadlifts, and chest presses that work multiple muscle groups simultaneously
2. Core stability: Planks, bird-dogs, and anti-rotation exercises that strengthen the entire midsection, not just the visible abdominals
3. Progressive overload: Gradually increasing weight or repetitions to continually challenge muscles
4. Unilateral training: Single-limb exercises like single-leg deadlifts or one-arm rows to address imbalances

The principle of progressive overload remains essential—we must continually challenge our muscles to see improvement. However, in middle age, I’ve found that progression might look different. Rather than constantly increasing weight, I sometimes add repetitions, slow down movement tempo, or decrease rest periods to create stimulus without excessive joint stress.

Strength training delivers benefits beyond muscle preservation. It enhances bone density, improves insulin sensitivity, boosts metabolism, and increases connective tissue strength—all increasingly important as we age. I’ve noticed improved posture, reduced back pain, and greater energy since making strength training the cornerstone of my fitness routine.

Rethinking Cardiovascular Exercise

Cardiovascular fitness remains vital after 40, but how we approach it often needs adjustment. In my 30s, I could pound the pavement without consequence. Now, I’ve learned to be more strategic about heart-pumping activities.

High-intensity interval training (HIIT) offers particular benefits for the over-40 crowd. Research suggests it effectively improves cardiovascular health while minimising joint impact and time commitment. A typical HIIT session might involve 20-30 minutes of alternating between brief, intense efforts (30-60 seconds) and recovery periods.

However, balance is key. While HIIT delivers excellent results, exclusively high-intensity training can increase stress hormone production and joint strain—both concerns after 40. I now incorporate varied cardio approaches:

• HIIT workouts: 1-2 times weekly for efficiency and cardiovascular benefits
• Moderate steady-state sessions: 1-2 times weekly for endurance and recovery
• Low-impact options: Swimming, cycling, or elliptical training to reduce joint stress
• Active recovery: Walking or gentle cycling on rest days to promote blood flow without fatigue

This varied approach maintains cardiovascular health while allowing adequate recovery. I’ve found that monitoring heart rate during exercise provides valuable feedback—I aim to spend time in different heart rate zones throughout the week rather than always pushing maximum effort.

Another consideration: cardio doesn’t always mean traditional “cardio exercises.” Circuit training with weights, kettlebell complexes, or bodyweight movement flows can simultaneously build strength and elevate heart rate, offering efficient training for time-pressed individuals.

Mobility and Flexibility Are No Longer Optional

In my 20s and 30s, I often skipped stretching and mobility work, considering it an optional extra if time permitted. After 40, I’ve recognised these elements as essential components of a sustainable fitness routine.

Joint mobility—the ability of joints to move through their full range of motion—tends to decline with age. Reduced mobility can lead to compensatory movement patterns, increasing injury risk and limiting exercise effectiveness. I now dedicate 10-15 minutes daily to mobility exercises targeting hips, shoulders, spine, and ankles.

Dynamic mobility work before exercise prepares joints for movement without reducing power output (as static stretching can). My pre-workout routine includes movements like leg swings, arm circles, and gentle spinal rotations to increase blood flow and joint lubrication.

For flexibility development, I’ve started going to yoga sessions. Beyond improving range of motion, yoga enhances body awareness and promotes mindful movement—qualities that help prevent injuries during more intense training.

Self-myofascial release techniques using foam rollers or massage balls have become valuable tools in my fitness arsenal. These methods help release tension in connective tissues, improving movement quality and reducing post-exercise stiffness.

The Importance of Recovery

If there’s one aspect of fitness that dramatically changes after 40, it’s recovery needs. In my younger years, I could train intensely daily with minimal consequences. Now, I’ve learned—sometimes the hard way—that recovery isn’t just important; it’s essential.

Sleep quality and quantity become increasingly crucial for us old men, too. During deep sleep, growth hormone is released, facilitating muscle repair and recovery. I prioritise 7-8 hours nightly and have established a consistent sleep schedule, even at weekends. It’s easier now the kids are older – it would have been impossible when they were younger! This single change has noticeably improved my exercise performance and recovery.

Active recovery days now feature prominently in my weekly schedule. Rather than complete rest, I engage in low-intensity activities like walking, gentle swimming, or light cycling to promote blood flow without creating additional stress. These sessions accelerate recovery while maintaining movement patterns.

Nutrition plays an increasingly important role, too. I’ve found that timing protein intake around workouts supports muscle maintenance, while adequate hydration significantly impacts how I feel the day after training. My post-workout routine now includes a protein-rich meal or shake within 30 minutes of finishing exercise.

Conclusion

Adapting your fitness routine after 40 isn’t about slowing down—it’s about training smarter to support continued activity for decades to come. By understanding the physiological changes occurring, assessing your current fitness status, and making strategic adjustments to your training approach, you can maintain and even improve your physical capabilities.

Accepting these changes rather than fighting them has transformed my relationship with fitness. My workouts now feel more purposeful and sustainable, focused not just on immediate results but on building a foundation for long-term health and functionality.

Remember that consistency trumps intensity after 40. Regular, varied movement that includes strength training, cardiovascular exercise, and mobility work—balanced with appropriate recovery—creates the optimal environment for continued fitness progress.

The best fitness routine after 40 is one you can maintain consistently, that addresses your specific needs and limitations, and that prepares you for the activities you want to enjoy in the coming decades. With thoughtful adaptation, your fitness journey can continue to evolve and reward you well beyond your 40s.