easyJet’s Free Child Places deal is one such offer, and apart from being a great deal for families looking to save money on their holidays, it has a few interesting quirks to be aware of before you book.

The free places are available on thousands of holidays with easyJet, and they are all ATOL protected, but this is not unique among holiday providers.

What makes easyJet interesting, aside from a huge range of package holidays available with free child places, is their flexibility. They also have a few terms you should know about before you pack your suitcase.

How It Works

It’s a simple enough offer: with selected hotels and destinations, you can get one free child’s place for every two paying adults.

That means a free flight, free accommodation (so long as the child is sharing a room with the parents), free transfers, free 23kg luggage allowance, and even free food and drink if the booked holiday is all inclusive (hotel dependent). Nice, right?

Wherever you see the Free Child Place label on one of their holidays, the offer applies:

The even better news is that this offer applies even if you are also travelling with an infant. Infants (under 2 years old) travel for a nominal £25 fee with easyJet provided they sit on an adult’s lap, and the hotels don’t charge extra for them either. You can even put two items like a pushchair and a travel cot in the hold for free.

The holidays you can choose from are wide ranging too. Just some of the destinations include:

• Spain
• Portugal
• Cyprus
• The Greek Islands
• Turkey
• Egypt
• Malta
• Italy

…and more besides. So whether you go somewhere near or somewhere far, for a few days or up to two weeks, the Free Child Places deal is a possibility.

This isn’t available to single parents, but a single adult travelling with a child can claim up to a £100 discount offer.

Great For Short Family Breaks

In order to qualify for the Free Child Places offer, your holiday only needs to be 3 or more nights long. This means you can get away for a long weekend running into a bank holiday, for example, and still take advantage of the deal.

It works just as well for longer holidays too of course, but this sort of flexibility is really useful, especially for families juggling tight budgets with work commitments and school term times.

For young families it is even better, because thanks to the way easyJet treat infants, two adults could travel with two children (one under 2 and one under 15) without paying more than £25 for either of them.

The filtering options on the site even let you search for holidays based on flight duration, so you can choose a holiday that gives you more time relaxing or having fun and less time in the air – which means less chance of your kids going mad and screaming on the plane!

Flexibility

easyJet are keen to point out how flexible their holiday packages are, including those that qualify for the free children’s places.

For a start, so long as the balance is settled 28 days before the holiday, you can spread payments out in a way that suits you. A £60 deposit per person is all it takes to secure your booking, and after that, you can pay in instalments to a timeframe that works for you.

You can even change the details of your holiday – or the entire thing – up to 28 days before departure. Sometimes there is not even a fee for this, and where there is a fee, it is often as low as £25.

If the worst happened and you had to cancel the whole thing, they have a Refund Guarantee. If you cancel up to 60 days beforehand your deposit will be refunded as credit, but any instalments you have paid will be refunded in full. Cancellation up to 28 days before will see you lose the deposit, but you still get the rest back.

Plus, they promise to match the price if you find the same holiday cheaper elsewhere, too. It’s called their Best Price Guarantee.

easyJet have won a lot of awards for this sort of thing, and the Gods of parenting do enjoy throwing a spanner in the works don’t they? So this sort of flexibility is very useful indeed!

Things to Look Out For

The easyJet Free Child Places offer is created in conjunction with the hotels themselves. So easyJet is giving away the free travel, and the hotel is giving away the free accommodation. This means that each hotel has a say in the specific rules.

One of these is the upper age limit that your free child can be. This is something you need to check, because while the maximum upper age limit is 15, some have lower age limits.

easyJet themselves treat anyone 16+ as an adult.

Connected to this, children must still be under any applicable age limit on the return flight of the journey. So trying to sneak a 15 year old through if they turn 16 while you are away will not work. This also applies to infants: if your toddler turns 2 while you are away they are not classed as an infant.

You should also be aware that availability is limited. The free child places can run out, and may only be available for specific rooms in some hotels, or on certain dates. It depends on the hotel you are looking at, so check everything carefully.

The last thing to look out for is any extras. A lot is included for free, but optional extras such as picking specific seats on the plane (this is easyJet after all), upgrades, and sometimes entry to certain onsite attractions may cost extra.

If you and your other half wanted to get away for a week or two, it was as simple as picking a destination, finding the cheapest time to go, booking time off work, and packing your suitcase.

But with kids?

You need to navigate term time vs non-term time. School fines for unauthorised absences. All the extra luggage you need to pack, carry, and pay extra for. Not to mention extras like pushchairs for smaller children. That’s before we have considered the extra cost of a place on the plane for your little ones and potentially the extra charge to have them at the hotel.

Well, Jet2holidays make all of this a little bit easier with their Free Child Places offer – and it’s a good ‘un.

This deal is aimed squarely at families, and can bring the cost of a holiday down by 25% or even more if things fall in your favour. It essentially brings down the cost to pre-kids levels.

Here is how it works.

Millions of Free Places Available

Although the Free Child Places deal operates on a first come first served basis – so when they are gone they are gone – there are millions of free places available every year.

So while they don’t all disappear in the first few weeks, you might find availability is better at some times, and to some destinations, than others.

To book a holiday with a free kids place, you simply search the holidays as normal and the site will add the free places based on the ages you input of the people travelling.

For example, here, I searched holidays for 2 Adults and 2 Children, giving the children’s ages as 6 and under 2:

The site is now showing me the cost with the free places offer included, as you can see from the image. You can narrow down your search by using the filtering options if you only want to see places with a children’s club, or a splash park, or a gym, etc.

So it’s incredibly easy to find a holiday and see what it is going to cost upfront. No adding discount codes later on or messing about with extras that haven’t been included yet.

Speaking of what’s included, the free kids places are made up of the following:

• Free seat on the plane
• Free accommodation
• Free transfers
• Free piece of checked baggage
• Free food and drink if you have booked all inclusive
• Free kids clubs at the hotel (where included)

It goes without saying that all these holidays are also ATOL protected.

It’s also worth knowing that you can get one free child for every two full price paying adults. So four adults travelling with two children could potentially get both kids holidaying for free. For groups such as parents, kids and grandparents, or parents, kids, plus auntie and uncle, this is an epic saving.

I say ‘potentially’ because only one free child is allowed per room. So it would depend on the specifics of your booking.

A final note on age limits. The free places are age restricted but it is the hotel, not Jet2holidays, that set the upper age limit. It’s between 11 and 17 in most places, but do check. Importantly, your child must be within the age limit on the date of the return flight to qualify.

Available Year Round

This isn’t a seasonal offer either. Jet2 aren’t just trying to fill space during their quieter periods. Their free child places are available all year round.

Any season. Any month. And even at any destination. Subject to availability of course. Remember, places are limited.

That means you’re not picking from a pre-selected range of package holidays chosen by Jet2, you can use the free child places deal with every single holiday they offer on their website.

It even includes getaways during the school holidays when prices are usually higher.

In other words, if Jet2 fly there, you can get at least one of your children there for free.

What About Single Parent Families?

Holidays are much harder for single parent families. No one would debate that. But sadly, the cost of a holiday is expensive and there is only so much help companies like Jet2 can give.

They can afford to give free child places to two full paying adults, but not to one. Of course, if you have two children then you can still claim the Free Child Place deal on one of those children, because you are paying full price for the other. So it depends on how many kids you have and how old they are.

However, this comes with a caveat, because while Jet2 have to draw the line at totally free child places for single parent families made up of one adult and one child, they do have a few other deals that could help.

First, infants go free with Jet2 on all package deals. That means if your child is under 2 years old, they will go free – even if you are claiming a Free Child Place deal for an older child. Not only that, but there are some additional benefits to the free infant deal which make the trip even easier:

• An extra 10kg of luggage for free.
• Two pieces of equipment like a car seat, travel cot, or pushchair, free.
• Creches and kids clubs at the hotel (where these are included).

This is in addition to flights, accommodation and transfers.

Now, I don’t know about you, but I think that’s pretty generous.

Plus, if you have an older child, they also offer a £60 discount for single parents. This isn’t going to suddenly make the unaffordable affordable, but it’s a gesture, and every little helps!

Going on holiday is expensive too, especially with said kids, but thanks to TUI they are a little bit cheaper than they used to be. At least, they are if you pick one of their pre-selected locations and hotels.

That’s because the well known travel agent has a Free Kids Places promotion running: two adults can add a child to their booking without any additional payment, which means sun-seeking families are quids in.

This deal sounds too good to be true but I’ve looked into it and it’s genuine.

I’m surprised I haven’t heard about it before as they have been running the scheme for a few years now, but as far as I’m aware it hasn’t captured the sort of attention it should have done.

Or maybe that just shows how long it has been since my family have been away?

Whatever the reason, I know about it now, and I wanted to share the news with you lot because who couldn’t use a holiday with all the doom and gloom in the news? But who can afford it with the state of the economy?

Well, with TUI’s free kids places deal it just got a little bit more affordable.

It’s Not Really Free Is It?

Yes. Honestly, one kid goes free, for real.

This is a genuinely fantastic deal for families, especially if you only have one child.

You might think it’s just a free flight, or just a free hotel stay for them, but it’s everything:

• Free flight
• Free accommodation
• Free standard board food and drink
• Free transfers to and from the airport

You get one free child place for every two adults paying full price, which is why I say it’s an especially good deal for single child families. You’ll be going away for the same price you used to before you became parents, but with all the benefits of your son or daughter having tantrums in the heat, refusing to get out of the pool, and stopping you going out to get drunk in the evenings.

I’m kidding, they’re a joy and your holiday will be magic.

A family of four would still have to pay for one of their kids, but if Nana and Grandad were coming too you could maybe get another free child spot that way. I say ‘could’ because the offer is restricted to one free child’s place per hotel room, apartment or villa. If two sets of adults book for the same holiday and hotel, then you can get 2 free kids places, but if you book a villa you won’t be able to.

Anyway, stop being greedy.

All holidays come with ABTA and ATOL protection too.

I Need This In My Life – How Do I Book?

Sounds good, right?

The even better news is that there are loads of choices on their website, and finding them is really easy because they have built a user friendly interface to search for options.

If you head to the free child places page on their website you can enter a few details then browse all of the available hotels and locations they have included in the offer.

Once you have done this TUI will show you a list of options, with their own recommendations showing first.

However, there are a lot of filtering options to use now, such as destination, price, duration, UK airport, etc. You can use these to narrow down your search, and you will need to, because I searched for holidays a year in advance and there were 351 places to choose from.

You can see the free child place included in the price, and you can also create shortlists to help you narrow down where you want to go.

Once you’ve decided on your holiday, you’ll be able to customise the booking in terms of baggage, upgrading your board or adding additional insurance etc. There may be different options available depending on where you are trying to book.

It’s a painless experience whatever choice you make, and it could be quite fun browsing all the options with the whole family gathered around the laptop.

Where Can You Go and What Does it Cost?

TUI release the destinations and hotels that are included in the promotion well in advance, usually around 18 months ahead of time, so it’s not a last minute thing. Although it can be if there are places left.

If you want to go somewhere next month and it is available you can book it, but free kids places are limited, so expect fewer available options the longer you leave it.

There will be different locations available depending on the time you try and book, but after having a good look through here is a short selection of some destinations I saw:

• Bulgaria
• Tunisia
• Egypt
• Morocco
• Turkey

Before looking into it I assumed it would just be a bunch of all inclusives in Spain and maybe a few other nearby European countries like Italy, Greece and Portugal. Don’t get me wrong, there are more holidays included in Spain than anywhere else (it is the UK’s most popular holiday destination after all) but there are some farther flung locations in there as well.

They have even included holidays to Universal Studios in Florida in the past, so you never know what will come up.

Cost can obviously vary massively, from about £550 per person to well over £2,000 per person. That’s based on a week away, with factors like how far away your destination is, the quality of your hotel or resort, and whether you want self catering, half board or all inclusive explaining the huge contrast in price points.

At the cheaper end you’re looking at about the same price per person as the entire cost of a camping trip somewhere in the UK, and for the difference in quality of experience I would say this is well worth it.

TUI is a massive business too, so exploring the options available in the free kids places deal is akin to exploring all the destinations available at a smaller travel agent.

You might struggle to choose between all the options available but you certainly won’t struggle to find one.

Don’t get me wrong, while the idea of adding another member of the family fills your heart with joy, the reality of caring for two little ones simultaneously can cause sleepless nights.

And considering that sleepless nights are about to become a feature in your life again this is the last thing you need!

As a seasoned parent, you may feel more equipped to handle the practical aspects, but the emotional and logistical challenges can still catch you off guard.

I’ve been there, so let me talk you through the truth of going from a one child family to a two child family.

Managing Divided Attention

One of the most significant challenges in transitioning from one child to two is the inevitable division of your attention.

Your firstborn, who has been the sole recipient of your focus, may initially struggle with sharing the spotlight. Be proactive in addressing this and mitigating any feelings of jealousy or resentment.

Carve out dedicated one-on-one time with each child, even if it’s just 15 minutes a day. During this time, engage in activities that cater to their individual interests and needs, reassuring them that they are still very much loved.

Additionally, involve your firstborn in the preparations for the new baby’s arrival, such as decorating the nursery or picking out special gifts, to cultivate a sense of responsibility and excitement.

Unique Personalities

While your firstborn may have set certain expectations for you as a parent, approach your second child with an open mind and embrace their individuality.

Every child is unique, with their own personality, interests, and developmental timeline. What worked for your firstborn may not necessarily resonate with your second, and that’s perfectly normal.

Resist the urge to compare your children’s milestones or achievements, as each child will progress at their own pace. Instead, celebrate their differences and tailor your parenting approach to their specific needs and strengths.

For football fans, this is basically just man management. Be like Fergie.

This flexibility and acceptance will encourage a healthy sibling dynamic and nurture a deeper understanding and appreciation for the beauty of diversity within your family.

Sibling Rivalry

Sibling rivalry is an inevitable part of the process when kid number 2 comes along, and it can start immediately.

Your firstborn, who has been the centre of attention, may exhibit behaviours ranging from mild jealousy to outright defiance or regression. It’s essential to approach these situations with patience, empathy, and a proactive mindset.

Validate your firstborn’s feelings and reassure them that your love for them remains unwavering. Encourage them to talk about their feelings, allowing them to express their emotions freely without judgement.

Sibling Bonds

While sibling rivalry is a natural part of the journey, witnessing your children bond can be profoundly rewarding.

As your children grow and develop their relationship, you’ll have the privilege of observing their shared laughter, playful banter, and unwavering loyalty unfold before your eyes.

Encourage positive interactions by facilitating joint activities, such as reading together, engaging in imaginative play, or exploring the great outdoors. Let your older child teach their little brother or sister things. Celebrate their milestones and achievements as a family, and you will notice real unity.

The bond between siblings is a lifelong connection. By nurturing their relationship from an early age, you’re laying the foundation for a lasting friendship and a support system that will carry them through life’s ups and downs.

It also makes your life a heck of a lot easier if they get on!

Logistical Preparations: Streamline the Daily Routine

While the emotional aspects of the transition are paramount, practical considerations are probably the trickiest aspect.

With two children in tow, your daily routine will inevitably become more complex, and efficient time management will be key to maintaining a sense of balance and sanity.

Establish a well-structured schedule that accommodates both children’s needs, such as feeding times, nap schedules, and playtime. Enlist the support of your partner, family members, or trusted friends to assist with tasks like grocery shopping, meal preparation, or running errands, allowing you to focus on quality time with your little ones.

Additionally, consider investing in organisational tools or apps that can streamline your daily routine, such as meal planners, shared calendars, or task management systems.

By minimising the mental load and maximising efficiency, you can create more space to enjoy the precious moments with your growing family.

Financial Considerations

Expanding your family inevitably brings additional financial responsibilities. From diapers and formula to educational expenses and extracurricular activities, it’s crucial to assess your financial situation and make necessary adjustments to accommodate the added costs.

Evaluate your budget, prioritise essential expenses, and explore cost-saving strategies, such as hand-me-downs, consignment shops, or bulk purchasing. Additionally, research government assistance programs, tax credits, or employer benefits that may be available to support growing families.

Although your costs will go up in some areas, you can also save money via:

• Additional child benefit

• Re-use old clothes and baby equipment

• Sharing toys

By proactively addressing financial considerations, you can alleviate potential stress and ensure that your family’s needs are met without compromising your long-term financial stability.

Self Care and Building a Support Network

Amidst the chaos of caring for two children, it’s easy to neglect your own needs. However, prioritising self-care is essential for maintaining your physical, emotional, and mental well-being, enabling you to be the best parent you can be.

Taking care of yourself is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. By nurturing your own well-being, you’ll have the energy, patience, and resilience to navigate the challenges of parenting two children with grace and joy.

You don’t have to do it alone either.

The adage “it takes a village to raise a child” rings especially true when transitioning from one child to two. Building a strong support network can alleviate the burden and provide invaluable guidance and emotional support.

Reach out to fellow parents who have navigated the transition successfully, seeking their advice and learning from their experiences. Join local parenting groups or online communities where you can connect with others facing similar challenges.

Additionally, don’t hesitate to enlist the help of trusted family members, friends, or professional childcare services when needed. Whether it’s arranging for occasional babysitting, seeking counselling, or simply having someone to lend an ear, a supportive network can be a lifeline during the most challenging moments.

Embrace the Chaos

As you navigate the transition from one child to two, don’t aim for perfection. Embrace the chaos.

Things are going to be a bit wild for a few years, there’s no getting around it. Perfection is an unrealistic and unattainable goal. There will be moments of chaos, overwhelm, and exhaustion, but it’s often within these moments that the true beauty of parenthood is most evident.

Celebrate the small victories, whether it’s successfully getting both children dressed and out the door or enjoying a peaceful meal together without any mashed potato landing on the wall. Laugh at the mishap, they will be some of your funniest memories later on in life.

Most importantly, remember to enjoy the present moment. I guarantee you will look back fondly on the baggy eyed years of not enough sleep and too much coffee. Your kids won’t be tiny terrors for long, so enjoy them before they grow up and become as boring as the rest of us!

The good news? With strategic modifications, we can maintain—and even improve—our fitness levels well into our 50s, 60s, and beyond. I’ve learned that adapting doesn’t mean slowing down; it means training smarter to support longevity and continued enjoyment of physical activities.

In this article, I’ll share practical insights about why our bodies change after 40 and how we can adjust our fitness routines accordingly. Whether you’re looking to maintain functional mobility, continue participating in sports, or simply feel your best, these evidence-based strategies will help you navigate this new phase of life.

Physiological Changes After 40

I initially blamed my decreased recovery time on being “too busy” or “not sleeping enough.” While those factors certainly play a role, I’ve since learned about the natural physiological changes that occur as we enter our fifth decade.

Beginning in our 30s, we typically lose between 3-8% of muscle mass per decade, with this rate accelerating after 60. This phenomenon, called sarcopenia, affects not just our appearance but our metabolism and functional strength. Simultaneously, bone mineral density starts to decline, increasing fracture risk and potentially leading to osteoporosis.

Perhaps most noticeable for many active blokes is the decline in cardiorespiratory fitness—our body’s ability to transport and utilise oxygen during extended physical activity. This explains why that five-a-side football match that once felt manageable now leaves you gasping for breath by halftime.

Hormonal changes also impact our fitness. Testosterone levels gradually decrease, affecting muscle maintenance, fat distribution, and energy levels. Meanwhile, recovery capacity diminishes, meaning those DOMS (Delayed Onset Muscle Soreness) that once disappeared after a day now might linger for several.

Understanding these changes isn’t cause for discouragement but rather a call to adapt. By acknowledging these shifts, we can implement targeted strategies to counteract them.

Assessing Your Current Fitness Levels

Before overhauling your exercise regime, it’s best to establish a clear picture of your current fitness status. Don’t operate on assumptions about your capabilities rather than objective measurements.

A comprehensive fitness assessment should evaluate four key components: strength, stability, mobility, and cardiorespiratory fitness. These elements typically decline with age but respond well to targeted training. Consider consulting an exercise physiologist, physical therapist, or certified personal trainer for a professional evaluation, which can identify specific areas needing attention before they become problematic.

If professional assessment isn’t feasible, several self-tests can provide valuable insights:

• Strength: Test how many push-ups you can perform with proper form, or time how long you can hold a plank position
• Stability: Try standing on one leg for 30 seconds with eyes closed
• Mobility: Assess how close you can come to touching your toes from a standing position
• Cardiorespiratory fitness: Time yourself walking or jogging a mile at a consistent pace

I discovered my stability needed significant improvement—I couldn’t balance on one leg for more than a few seconds with my eyes closed. This revelation prompted me to incorporate specific balance exercises into my routine.

Recording these baseline measurements provides concrete data to track progress and identify areas requiring focused attention. Remember, this assessment isn’t about comparing yourself to others or to your younger self—it’s about understanding your current capabilities to create an appropriate, progressive training plan going forward.

Prioritising Strength Training

If there’s one fitness component I’ve learned deserves top billing after 40, it’s strength training. While younger me focused primarily on cardio and aesthetics, I now understand that preserving muscle mass through resistance training is non-negotiable for healthy ageing.

Strength training after 40 should shift focus from isolated “show muscles” to compound movements that engage multiple muscle groups simultaneously. These functional exercises—squats, deadlifts, rows, and presses—mirror everyday movements and provide more comprehensive benefits than bicep curls alone.

I’ve restructured my weekly routine to include at least two dedicated strength sessions, focusing on:

1. Compound movements: Exercises like squats, deadlifts, and chest presses that work multiple muscle groups simultaneously
2. Core stability: Planks, bird-dogs, and anti-rotation exercises that strengthen the entire midsection, not just the visible abdominals
3. Progressive overload: Gradually increasing weight or repetitions to continually challenge muscles
4. Unilateral training: Single-limb exercises like single-leg deadlifts or one-arm rows to address imbalances

The principle of progressive overload remains essential—we must continually challenge our muscles to see improvement. However, in middle age, I’ve found that progression might look different. Rather than constantly increasing weight, I sometimes add repetitions, slow down movement tempo, or decrease rest periods to create stimulus without excessive joint stress.

Strength training delivers benefits beyond muscle preservation. It enhances bone density, improves insulin sensitivity, boosts metabolism, and increases connective tissue strength—all increasingly important as we age. I’ve noticed improved posture, reduced back pain, and greater energy since making strength training the cornerstone of my fitness routine.

Rethinking Cardiovascular Exercise

Cardiovascular fitness remains vital after 40, but how we approach it often needs adjustment. In my 30s, I could pound the pavement without consequence. Now, I’ve learned to be more strategic about heart-pumping activities.

High-intensity interval training (HIIT) offers particular benefits for the over-40 crowd. Research suggests it effectively improves cardiovascular health while minimising joint impact and time commitment. A typical HIIT session might involve 20-30 minutes of alternating between brief, intense efforts (30-60 seconds) and recovery periods.

However, balance is key. While HIIT delivers excellent results, exclusively high-intensity training can increase stress hormone production and joint strain—both concerns after 40. I now incorporate varied cardio approaches:

• HIIT workouts: 1-2 times weekly for efficiency and cardiovascular benefits
• Moderate steady-state sessions: 1-2 times weekly for endurance and recovery
• Low-impact options: Swimming, cycling, or elliptical training to reduce joint stress
• Active recovery: Walking or gentle cycling on rest days to promote blood flow without fatigue

This varied approach maintains cardiovascular health while allowing adequate recovery. I’ve found that monitoring heart rate during exercise provides valuable feedback—I aim to spend time in different heart rate zones throughout the week rather than always pushing maximum effort.

Another consideration: cardio doesn’t always mean traditional “cardio exercises.” Circuit training with weights, kettlebell complexes, or bodyweight movement flows can simultaneously build strength and elevate heart rate, offering efficient training for time-pressed individuals.

Mobility and Flexibility Are No Longer Optional

In my 20s and 30s, I often skipped stretching and mobility work, considering it an optional extra if time permitted. After 40, I’ve recognised these elements as essential components of a sustainable fitness routine.

Joint mobility—the ability of joints to move through their full range of motion—tends to decline with age. Reduced mobility can lead to compensatory movement patterns, increasing injury risk and limiting exercise effectiveness. I now dedicate 10-15 minutes daily to mobility exercises targeting hips, shoulders, spine, and ankles.

Dynamic mobility work before exercise prepares joints for movement without reducing power output (as static stretching can). My pre-workout routine includes movements like leg swings, arm circles, and gentle spinal rotations to increase blood flow and joint lubrication.

For flexibility development, I’ve started going to yoga sessions. Beyond improving range of motion, yoga enhances body awareness and promotes mindful movement—qualities that help prevent injuries during more intense training.

Self-myofascial release techniques using foam rollers or massage balls have become valuable tools in my fitness arsenal. These methods help release tension in connective tissues, improving movement quality and reducing post-exercise stiffness.

The Importance of Recovery

If there’s one aspect of fitness that dramatically changes after 40, it’s recovery needs. In my younger years, I could train intensely daily with minimal consequences. Now, I’ve learned—sometimes the hard way—that recovery isn’t just important; it’s essential.

Sleep quality and quantity become increasingly crucial for us old men, too. During deep sleep, growth hormone is released, facilitating muscle repair and recovery. I prioritise 7-8 hours nightly and have established a consistent sleep schedule, even at weekends. It’s easier now the kids are older – it would have been impossible when they were younger! This single change has noticeably improved my exercise performance and recovery.

Active recovery days now feature prominently in my weekly schedule. Rather than complete rest, I engage in low-intensity activities like walking, gentle swimming, or light cycling to promote blood flow without creating additional stress. These sessions accelerate recovery while maintaining movement patterns.

Nutrition plays an increasingly important role, too. I’ve found that timing protein intake around workouts supports muscle maintenance, while adequate hydration significantly impacts how I feel the day after training. My post-workout routine now includes a protein-rich meal or shake within 30 minutes of finishing exercise.

Conclusion

Adapting your fitness routine after 40 isn’t about slowing down—it’s about training smarter to support continued activity for decades to come. By understanding the physiological changes occurring, assessing your current fitness status, and making strategic adjustments to your training approach, you can maintain and even improve your physical capabilities.

Accepting these changes rather than fighting them has transformed my relationship with fitness. My workouts now feel more purposeful and sustainable, focused not just on immediate results but on building a foundation for long-term health and functionality.

Remember that consistency trumps intensity after 40. Regular, varied movement that includes strength training, cardiovascular exercise, and mobility work—balanced with appropriate recovery—creates the optimal environment for continued fitness progress.

The best fitness routine after 40 is one you can maintain consistently, that addresses your specific needs and limitations, and that prepares you for the activities you want to enjoy in the coming decades. With thoughtful adaptation, your fitness journey can continue to evolve and reward you well beyond your 40s.

Dads at the school gate come in all forms. Some are there every morning. Some appear so rarely the teachers treat them like visiting dignitaries. Some know every child, every parent, and every rumour before the newsletter has even gone out.

The Hard Man

This dad walks up to the gate like he is entering a boxing ring, even though he is carrying a unicorn lunchbox and a water bottle covered in Paw Patrol stickers.

He is not aggressive, exactly. He just has the permanent expression of a man who is ready to sort something out. Bad parking? He has noticed. Someone vaping too close to the entrance? He has clocked it. A Year Four child riding a scooter slightly too fast? He is already narrowing his eyes.

His own child, naturally, is usually tiny, polite, and wearing a cardigan.

The Poser

The Poser has turned the school run into a low-level fashion shoot. Sunglasses in October. Designer trainers that have never seen mud. A coat that looks unsuitable for both parenting and weather.

He leans against the car like he is waiting to be photographed for an album cover, not collecting a child who will immediately wipe yoghurt on his sleeve.

The annoying thing is, he does usually look good. Somehow his hair is done before 8.45am.

The Overly Enthusiastic One

He volunteers for everything. School fair? He is on it. Reading morning? Front row. Sponsored walk? He has already made a spreadsheet.

He is lovely, but exhausting. He knows the teachers by first name, remembers every themed day, and somehow has the energy to say “Morning!” like he means it.

Other dads admire him from a safe distance, in the same way you might admire someone climbing Everest. Impressive, yes. But you would rather not join in.

The Car Park General

This dad has strong views about traffic flow. Very strong views.

He knows which parents park badly, which residents are “looking for a row”, and which side street gives you the cleanest getaway after drop-off. He does not simply arrive at school. He executes a manoeuvre.

He can reverse into a space the size of a crisp packet while muttering about people who “just abandon it anywhere”.

The One Who Knows Too Much

Every school has one. He knows who is leaving, who is pregnant, which teacher is moving year groups, and why the headteacher looked stressed last Thursday.

Nobody has officially told him any of this. He just knows.

He gets his information through casual chats, overheard corridor comments, and a wife who is in three WhatsApp groups he pretends not to read. If MI5 ever recruited from primary schools, he would be first on the list.

The Tactical Avoider

This dad is not rude. He is just trying to get in and out without accidentally committing to a conversation, a playdate, or helping with tombola.

He stands slightly away from the main group, usually checking emails that may or may not exist. When someone catches his eye, he gives a small nod. Not unfriendly. Not welcoming. Just enough human contact to remain socially acceptable.

He has mastered the art of looking busy while doing absolutely nothing.

The Weekend Football Manager

His child plays for an under-eights team, and he now speaks entirely in tactical analysis.

He can turn a school-gate chat about packed lunches into a discussion about pressing from the front. He says things like “they need to learn shape” about children who still believe clouds follow the car.

On match days, he wears a club coat and carries himself like the fate of English football rests on him organising the substitutes properly.

The Calm Late Dad

He arrives late every morning but never seems stressed. This is what makes him so confusing.

His child is jogging beside him with one shoe half on, hair untouched by human hands, book bag swinging open, yet he strolls in as if this was always the plan.

“Plenty of time,” he says, while the bell is actively ringing.

You want to hate him, but you cannot. There is something peaceful about a man who has simply accepted chaos as a lifestyle.

The Bag For Life Dad

This dad is prepared for everything, but not in a polished way. He has snacks, gloves, tissues, plasters, a spare jumper, a toy car, three old permission slips, and possibly a banana from last week.

All of this lives inside a battered supermarket bag that looks like it has survived several governments.

He is not stylish. He is not organised in the traditional sense. But when your child needs a tissue, a biscuit, or a carrier bag because their “craft” is still wet, he becomes the most important man on the playground.

The Accidental PTA Dad

He went to one meeting because nobody else could make it, and now he is somehow in charge of gazebos.

He does not know how this happened. One minute he was nodding politely about raffle prizes, the next he had a hi-vis vest and responsibility for extension leads.

He is not naturally a committee man, but he is reliable, which is fatal. Schools can smell reliable parents from miles away.

The Normal Dad Trying His Best

This is most of us, really.

Slightly tired. Occasionally late. Sometimes sociable, sometimes desperate to leave. Proud when we remember World Book Day, quietly broken when we forget the water bottle.

We are all a bit of every dad on this list. Some days you are the Avoider. Some days you are the Car Park General. Every now and then, against all odds, you become the Overly Enthusiastic One and sign up for something you immediately regret.

The truth is, the school gate makes strange characters of us all. It turns grown men into nodding acquaintances, amateur detectives, traffic experts, snack smugglers, and social cowards.

And then, just when you think you have got the whole thing figured out, your child asks why you were “standing weird” near the bins.

Nothing keeps a dad humble like the school run.

If you’re in the market for a new home, then you’ll want to think about the location, and the facilities and features that surround it. But arguably the most important of these is the community you’ll find yourself immersed in.

So, when you’re picking out that home, what should you be looking for?

The Value of Community Amenities

Community amenities take many different shapes. What matters to you might depend on your character and personality, as well as on the needs of your family. Everyone can benefit from access to a local park, but families might benefit from quality schools, just as older people are more likely to benefit from easy access to healthcare facilities. Think also about the ease with which you’ll be able to perform the weekly shop. Ordering online might be convenient, but it will rob you of the chance to get out of the house, and to talk to the people who live near you.

Building Social Connections in a New Area

There are also groups, clubs and events that are based around human interaction. You might share a passion for a particular sport or activity — whether that’s playing football, or cleaning up the neighbourhood. Find out what you can get involved with locally, and you’ll often find it much easier to build ties with your new neighbours.

Safety and Peace of Mind

Crime varies from one neighbourhood to the next. You’ll want to research the rates in the area you plan on moving into, and to speak to the local people. If there’s a general consensus that you’re likely to run into crime, then it might be worth re-evaluating whether the benefits of an area outweigh this considerable downside.

The Role of Local Events and Activities

Certain local events only come up once every few months. Some only happen once a year. But it’s only during these events, like markets, festivals, and outdoor parties, that you’ll see the community at its most vibrant and welcoming.

Integrating New Homes into Established Communities

Building new homes from the ground up is another option. If this is you, you’ll want to think about how easily it will integrate into the local, established community. It might be that a given plot of land is ideal in every respect but its location, and the ease with which it will integrate into the nearest community. Of course, many new-build developments are designed with the community in mind.

While the kids are thrilled to be off school, parents often worry about keeping them entertained without breaking the bank. As well as worrying about keeping hold of their sanity.

After years of trial and error, I’ve compiled a list of free activities that have been lifesavers for my family. These ideas will help you through the long summer break without emptying your wallet or losing your mind.

Go on a Picnic Adventure

One of my family’s favourite summer activities is having a picnic. It’s simple, free, and the kids absolutely love it. We pack up some sandwiches, fruits, and maybe a few treats, grab a blanket, and head to our local park or even just the back garden.

To make it more exciting, I often turn it into a mini-adventure:

• We pretend we’re explorers discovering a new land
• We play ‘I Spy’ with the surroundings
• We have a competition to see who can make the best daisy chain

You can do anything really. My kids quite liked picking the perfect picnic spot.

The best part? The children get involved in preparing the picnic, which keeps them occupied even before we leave the house, and they are only eating what they were going to have anyway.

It’s a brilliant way to spend quality time together and enjoy the great outdoors without spending a penny.

Library Fun

Our local library has been an absolute godsend during the summer holidays. It’s not just about borrowing books (although that’s brilliant too). Many libraries run free summer reading challenges, which my kids love. They get stickers and certificates for reading a certain number of books, which really motivates them.

But there’s more to it than just reading:

• We attend free storytelling sessions
• The kids participate in craft workshops
• There is a morning Lego club
• We use the computers to explore topics they’re interested in

Libraries often have information about other free local events too, so it’s always worth popping in to see what’s on offer.

Garden Olympics

Who needs expensive theme parks when you have a garden (or even a small outdoor space)? We love to host our own ‘Garden Olympics’. It’s free, it keeps the kids active, and it’s a great way to spend time together as a family.

Here are some of our favourite ‘events’:

• Egg and spoon race (using a potato if you don’t want to waste eggs)
• Sack race (using old pillowcases)
• Obstacle course (using any household items)
• Target practice (throwing balls into buckets… or at Dad…)

We make medals using cardboard and tin foil, and the kids love designing them. It’s amazing how competitive everyone gets – even the adults!

If you don’t have a garden you can go to a local park or out into the countryside. All you need is a bit of grass.

Nature Scavenger Hunt

Getting out into nature is not only free, but it’s also educational and fun. I often organise nature scavenger hunts for my kids. We head to our local park, woods, or even just around the neighbourhood, armed with a list of things to find.

Our scavenger hunt usually includes:

• Different types of leaves
• Specific colours of flowers
• Interesting shaped stones
• Signs of wildlife (like feathers or animal tracks)

It’s a great way to teach the kids about the environment and encourage them to observe the world around them. Plus, it keeps them engaged for hours.

I give out prizes at the end like small bags of Haribo, but you don’t have to.

DIY Science Experiments

Who says you need an expensive science kit to have fun? Some of our most memorable days have been spent doing simple science experiments with everyday household items.

Here are a few of our favourites:

• Making a volcano with baking soda and vinegar
• Creating a lava lamp with oil, water, and food colouring
• Growing crystals using sugar and water
• Making slime with cornflour and water

Not only are these experiments fun, but they’re also educational. The kids learn about chemical reactions, density, and more, all while having a blast.

Check Youtube for ideas on different experiments, there are loads on there.

Backyard Camping

Camping doesn’t have to mean packing up the car and driving for hours. We love to set up camp in our back garden. It’s free, and the kids think it’s a huge adventure.

Here’s what we do:

• Set up a tent (or make one with sheets and chairs if you don’t have a tent)
• Tell stories by torchlight
• Look at the stars and try to identify constellations
• Have a midnight feast (which is usually about 9 pm)

The best part? If it rains or gets too cold, you can always head back inside. To be honest we have never slept through the night in our garden tent, but you could.

Create a Mini Art Gallery

On rainy days, we love to get creative. We set up our own little art gallery in the house. Each family member creates a piece of art, and then we have a grand ‘opening’ where we all view and discuss each other’s masterpieces.

We use whatever we have around the house:

• Crayons and paper
• Old magazines for collages
• Natural materials like leaves and twigs for nature art
• Even digital art if we have access to a computer

It’s a great way to encourage creativity and self-expression, and it doesn’t cost a thing.

Family Talent Show

Another rainy day favourite in our house is the family talent show. Everyone gets to showcase a talent – whether it’s singing, dancing, telling jokes, or doing magic tricks.

We make it feel like a real show:

• Create tickets for the ‘audience’
• Make a stage area in the living room
• Use a wooden spoon as a microphone
• Slip on Safersox dance socks for a fun, non-slip way to dance around
• Dim the lights and use a torch or lamp for a spotlight effect

It’s hilarious, and often the adults end up being more enthusiastic than the kids.

If you’re tired and want 15 minutes to yourself, you can ask the kids to go away and create a play or a show, then perform it for you.

Create a Time Capsule

This is a fun activity that also creates a lovely keepsake. We gather items that represent our summer and put them in a container to be opened in the future.

Items might include:

• Drawings or paintings the kids have made
• A letter to their future selves
• Photos of our summer activities
• Small objects that are meaningful to them

We then bury it in the garden or hide it in the attic (or under the floorboards in our old house). The kids love the idea of rediscovering it years later.

Learn a New Skill

Summer is a great time for kids to learn something new. We choose a skill and spend a little time each day practising it. By the end of the summer, they’ve usually made impressive progress.

Some skills we’ve tackled:

• Juggling (using balled-up socks)
• Origami (using old newspapers)
• Instruments if you have any
• Magic tricks (using household items)
• A new language (using free online resources)

It’s amazing how proud they feel when they master something new. Even if they only learn a few words in German, or whatever, it’s a huge achievement for young kids.

Community Clean-Up

This might not sound like the most exciting activity, but my kids actually really enjoy it. We organise a little community clean-up in our local area. It teaches them about responsibility and caring for the environment.

We make it fun by:

• Having a competition to see who can collect the most litter
• Identifying the strangest item found
• Rewarding ourselves with treats afterwards

It’s a great way to get some exercise, do something good for the community, and teach important values.

In conclusion, keeping kids entertained during the summer holidays doesn’t have to be expensive. With a bit of creativity and enthusiasm, you can create memorable experiences that are completely free. Remember, the most important thing is spending quality time together as a family, but it helps to be structured.

A second series was commissioned just a few weeks after the first series ended, which broadcast in 2024.

The show was essentially a condensed version of Love Island with the young singles swapped out for parents in their 40s and 50s. Love Island for old people, as my teenage nephew put it shortly before I clipped him round the ear.

The added twist was that the contestants’ own children had a hand in the proceedings. They were the ones doing the match making, deciding who would go on dates with each other and so on. That’s why it was called My Mum Your Dad.

I have to admit I was a huge fan.

I have watched the show ever since, but I started to wonder if any of the couples that formed during the show were still together. Had any of them made it in the real world, away from the cameras and the mansion they were all staying in?

Here’s what I found out.

A Look at the Couples Since the Show Ended

I’m going to update this page regularly for as long as the show runs, so the information below is current.

I will check in on every surviving couple from every series whenever I update the page, keeping all relationship statuses up to date.

Series 2

Series 2 was a little different because it featured an odd number of contestants: 6 men and 5 women. What’s more, fan favourite, Paul, from Series 1 was back.

Eight of the contestants were there on day 1 of the show with three entering the show later as bombshells. This meant there was the potential for a maximum of 5 couple to form.

The other big difference in Series 2 was that the adults obviously knew they were being watched by their children. That’s not a trick you can pull twice in a TV show watched by millions unfortunately!

A shock decision by producers saw all contestant who were not in a couple sent packing in episode 9. This left just 3 couples for the final episode of the show. However, one of them, Stephanie and Paul, decided to end their final date as friends.

So just two couples survived at the end of Series 2, and this is how they’re doing now.

Vicky and David

Still Together: Yes!

At the end of the final episode, we got an update on the couples since there was a gap of a few months between the end of filming and the show airing.

Happily, Vicky and David confirmed they were still together. Social media posts since have seen the pair with each other’s families as well as enjoying days out and nights in with each other.

It wasn’t the most obvious of relationships at the start, and even though the couple got together early on they had a few obstacles to overcome. David was adamant not to take things too quickly, and Vicky’s emotions were up and down. At one point I thought they were done for.

They got through it though, and by the final episode were totally smitten with each other. From everything they are still posting online, it looks like the still are.

Jenny and Danny

Still Together: Yes!

Jenny and Danny were the first couple on the show to enter the snug – and we all know what goes on in the snug don’t we? They were already popular contestants but fans were really rooting for them after this.

Perhaps it was because of Danny’s lack of confidence and genuine remorse for previous relationship mistakes, and Jenny’s willingness to open up and try a new approach after consistently dating men who were bad news. It’s nice to see people overcoming their demons and making things work.

There was no instant spark between them, but after the first week Jenny asked Danny on a date and things snowballed.

Well, I’m pleased to say that following the update on the final episode of the show, Jenny and Danny are indeed still together. The distance between them hasn’t seemed to lessen their connection, despite Jenny living in Cheshire and Danny living in Sussex. It sounds like Jenny is putting in more driving hours than Danny, but she seems happy to do so, and it might not be for long becaauuse….

…they are even talking about moving in together and getting married! Their children especially keen on the idea, apparently.

The pair both share lots of updates on their Instagram accounts, so we know they are very happy together. They shared their first Christmas together at the end of 2024 – the first of many I hope.

Series 1

There were 6 men and 6 women who took part in My Mum Your Dad Series 1, all straight, with the potential for 6 couples to form.

Obviously though, we don’t live in a perfect world so not all of them found a partner during their time on the show.

Carolyn and Clayton were voted off the show on day 7 when all the children had to choose two people to leave, while Martin H and Tollulah left on day 9 after deciding that they weren’t going to find a romantic connection. Then, on the very last day, Monique and Martin M left the country retreat as friends after deciding they weren’t right for each other after all.

That leaves 3 couples who were ‘together’ after the last episode. Well, as together as you can be with someone after only knowing them for 2 weeks.

Natalie and Paul

Still Together: No

Natalie and Paul were the first couple to split.

The show was filmed some time before it aired, so although the pair had left as a couple, they had already broken up by the time the first episode went out on September 11th.

Explaining the split on social media, Paul thanked everyone for their support and investment in his and Natalie’s relationship, going on to describe how they had enjoyed each other’s company over the summer as they continued to get to know each other. However, sometime in August they decided to be friends.

It’s a shame because these guys were the first to hit it off. They had an instant attraction and were snogging after a few days, as well as sharing meaningful conversations and trusting each other with information about themselves that you wouldn’t share with just anyone.

Viewers thought they were made for each other, and so did their kids, but sadly it was not to be.

Sharon and Elliott

Still Together: No

Things were initially looking really good for Sharon and Elliott.

They had a slower build up than Natalie and Paul due to Sharon’s experiences in past relationships where she had been hurt. She didn’t want to jump into anything and found it difficult to fully open up. Elliott was very understanding though, and told her he would take things as slowly as she needed him to.

Despite this their connection was obvious for anyone to see, and they left the show hand in hand ready to explore life as a couple.

After quite a lot of activity on social media such as cuddly pictures and smoochy statements about living together, Sharon unfollowed Elliott on Instagram. I know. Plot twist, right?

It turns out that the move never happened and the distance between them made the relationships impossible. They apparently left things on good terms, but if that’s true, why did Sharon unfollow Elliott?

Janey and Roger

Still Together: Yes!

Thank God for Janey and Roger. They have saved the show from being a total wipe out.

Initially, Roger had been getting close to Caroline, but when Janey entered the show as a bombshell on day 2 his head was turned. I think that’s the expression young people use these days.

It wasn’t just physical attraction either. Janey helped Roger open up about the passing of his wife a year earlier, so their connection felt special from the start. They didn’t exactly rush into it, but they had their first kiss on their final date, and left the show very much besotted with each other.

Since then they have been very active on social media, sharing their adventures travelling and Janey’s career as a singer. They celebrated their 1 year anniversary in July of 2024, and have both been quoted saying that marriage is certainly not off the table.

They have even done some modelling as a couple for Anne Summers.

Kinky.

Children Matchmaking for Their Parents – What Could Go Wrong?

Would you let your kids pick a girlfriend or boyfriend for you?

Mine aren’t old enough yet, but even if they were, it would be a hard no from me! But that’s why this show was such a good watch.

I’m not typically a reality TV kind of guy, but My Mum Your Dad wasn’t like most shows in that genre. It felt genuine, and introducing the contestants’ children as a controlling element wasn’t a gimmick. It was about how well they knew their parents, how they wanted to look out for them, and be involved in their lives.

The kids all hung out in a bunker and watched what their folks were getting up to. They expressed their happiness when things were going well, and their concerns when they weren’t sure if any of the developing relationships were going in the right direction.

For example, at points the kids would decide which two people to send on dates, so they would have to work together to pick the pairing they thought was fair and had a chance of succeeding. They had the chance to ask questions to their own parents’ potential partner via a waitress on a dinner date. They were also asked to help their parents reflect on their time at the retreat towards the end of the show.

Then, at the end when the parents were coupled up, the children were asked whether or not they would give their blessing based on what they had seen, and air any concerns they had.

It wasn’t a show that went out of its way to create tension or drama, it was much more grounded than that, and I can’t wait for the next series.

Even though my mates laugh at me for talking about it!

The car lives on the drive, because getting it in and out of the garage is more hassle than it’s worth. The garage, meanwhile, becomes a sort of domestic holding pen for half-used paint tins, flat footballs, dusty camping chairs, old school projects, mystery cables and that one box you are apparently not allowed to throw away.

But if you have off-street parking and an empty garage, you are sitting on one of the most useful spaces in the house. It doesn’t have to become some glossy showroom from a home renovation programme. It just needs a job.

Here are some of the best ways to use a garage that no longer has to pretend it is waiting for a car.

Home Gym

A garage gym sounds ambitious, but it can be one of the most useful ways to reclaim the space. You don’t need mirrored walls, a rowing machine that looks like it belongs in an Olympic training centre, or a motivational slogan painted above the door.

Start with the basics: decent flooring, good lighting, ventilation and enough room to move without cracking your shin on a lawnmower. A set of adjustable dumbbells, a bench, resistance bands and a mat can do a lot more than most people think.

The big advantage is convenience. No commute, no queue for equipment, no pretending you know how to adjust a machine while someone in tiny shorts waits behind you. The downside is that British garages are often cold, dusty and slightly damp, so insulation and heating may matter if you want to use it for more than three brave weeks in January.

Workshop Or DIY Space

If you enjoy making, fixing, sanding, drilling or generally pretending you know exactly what you’re doing, a garage workshop is hard to beat.

A sturdy workbench, wall-mounted tool storage and proper task lighting can transform the space. Suddenly you have somewhere to cut wood, repair a bike, assemble flat-pack furniture or take apart something that probably didn’t need taking apart.

The main benefit is mess control. Sawdust, screws, paint, glue and “I’ll finish that tomorrow” projects can all stay in one place. That alone is worth a lot if you have ever tried to do DIY on the kitchen table and then spent longer cleaning up than doing the job itself.

Proper Storage Room

Storage might not sound exciting, but neither does spending twenty minutes trying to find the Christmas lights while balancing on one foot next to a box of old chargers.

A garage can be brilliant storage if it is treated properly. The trick is to stop thinking of it as a dumping ground and start thinking of it as an organised extension of the house.

Use heavy-duty shelving, labelled boxes, wall hooks and clear zones. Seasonal decorations in one area. Tools in another. Sports gear somewhere obvious. Paint and DIY supplies away from anything that might get knocked over.

The goal is simple: you should be able to walk in, find what you need and leave without muttering darkly about everyone else in the house.

Utility And Laundry Overflow

Not every home has space for a utility room, but a garage can do a decent impression of one.

It can house a tumble dryer, freezer, extra fridge, muddy boots, cleaning supplies, dog towels, bulk buys and all the awkward household stuff that clogs up cupboards indoors. If the garage has plumbing or can be adapted sensibly, it may even take a washing machine or sink.

This is not glamorous, but it is genuinely useful. It frees up the kitchen, reduces clutter and gives the messier bits of family life somewhere to live. Just make sure appliances are suitable for garage temperatures, especially freezers and fridges, because not all of them work happily in cold conditions.

Hobby Room

A garage can become a proper grown-up hobby room, which is far better than trying to squeeze everything into a corner of the spare bedroom.

It could be for guitars, fishing gear, model-making, darts, brewing, cycling, gaming, golf equipment or whatever else you are into. The point is not to create a luxury retreat. It is to have a dedicated space where your stuff can stay set up.

That makes a big difference. Hobbies are much easier to keep up when you don’t have to unpack everything, use it for forty minutes, then put it all away again because someone needs the table.

Garden Gear Headquarters

If you have a garden, the garage is often the natural home for the outdoor kit. The problem is that it can quickly turn into a collapsing pile of compost bags, tangled hoses and tools you only use twice a year.

A good garden setup needs wall hooks, shelves, racks and a clear floor area. Keep the mower accessible, hang spades and forks properly, store BBQ gear together and create a spot for outdoor cushions, pots, weedkiller and pressure washer bits.

This version of the garage is practical rather than glamorous, but it makes garden jobs much less irritating. And anything that reduces the number of times you trip over a strimmer cable deserves respect.

Bike And Outdoor Kit Zone

Bikes take up a ridiculous amount of space when they are stored badly. Add helmets, pumps, locks, camping gear, walking boots, waterproofs and rucksacks, and you have a clutter problem disguised as an active lifestyle.

A garage is ideal for this kind of kit. Wall-mounted bike racks, ceiling hooks, boot trays and sturdy shelves can make the space far easier to use.

The main thing is access. If you have to move nine things to get to your bike, you will use the bike less. If everything has a clear spot, you are much more likely to get out without turning the garage into a crime scene of fallen helmets and angry muttering.

Home Office Or Work Space

A garage office can work, but only if you are honest about what garages are like.

On paper, it sounds perfect. Separate from the house, quieter than the kitchen, and far enough away from the kettle to stop you making a brew every twenty minutes. In reality, a bare garage may be cold, echoey, poorly lit and not exactly inspiring.

If you want to use it seriously as a work space, think about insulation, heating, flooring, Wi-Fi, sockets, natural light and security. It may need proper conversion work rather than just a desk and a hopeful attitude.

Done well, though, it can be brilliant. You get separation between home and work without actually leaving the property, which is handy if your commute has become ten steps and a suspiciously early lunch.

Games Or TV Room

You do not have to call it a man cave. In fact, it is probably better if you don’t.

A garage can become a relaxed games or TV room with a sofa, screen, darts board, old games console, mini fridge or whatever else makes sense. It is a good option if the main living room is already spoken for and you want somewhere less precious.

The key is comfort. If it still feels like a cold concrete box with a telly in it, nobody will use it. Add flooring, warmth, lighting and enough storage to stop it becoming another dumping ground.

Keep it realistic and it can be a brilliant extra room rather than a sad shrine to things you used to do before the house became full.

Mixed-Use Garage

For most people, the best use of a garage is not one single thing. It is a sensible mix.

One wall for storage. One corner for tools. A rack for bikes. A freezer near the door. A small workout area if there is room. Maybe a bench, hooks, shelves and a clear walkway so you can actually move.

This is probably the most realistic option because garages have to earn their keep. They are rarely big enough to become a perfect gym, workshop, office and storage room all at once, but they can do a bit of everything if you plan the layout properly.

The secret is zoning. Give each part of the garage a purpose and be ruthless about what belongs there. Otherwise, no matter how good your intentions are, the space will slowly return to being a museum of things you meant to sort out.

Make The Garage Earn Its Space

A garage that is not used for a car can easily become wasted space, but it doesn’t have to.

The best option depends on what your house is missing. Need storage? Build proper storage. Need somewhere to train? Make it a gym. Need space for tools, bikes, garden gear or hobbies? Give those things a home.

The drive can keep the car. The garage can do something much more useful.